Genesis In the Beginning
Pace yourselves gentlemen. Men and women are, by design, totally different creatures physically and psychologically. In general women take a substantially greater amount of time to warm up. For what ever the reasons she has a mountain of barriers in place and like a mountain you only get to the top by repetitively taking single steps individually placed, intentionally and carefully to reach your goal. One wrong step and you slide back a few feet and if that steps ground is chosen poorly and the foundation under your feet crumbles you will tumble head over heels down that mountain. Practice patients and let the relationship develop at its own pace. I know this is the hard part, being guys we think we know exactly what we want and we want it now. Yes, we want to stand on the top of that mountain feeling the cool breeze and taking in the visual eye candy of seeing the land below at a birds eye view and screaming out loud, I MADE IT. There is only one way to reach the prize, you need to preserver and run the race, take your falls and tumbles like a man, get up, dust yourself off, start climbing again, and hopefully with a lesson learned. In the same way coming on too strong too early will almost certainly cause to to take a step back in winning her interest. Additionally depending on all the unknown variables it could take the reward of her interest away from you while creeping her out. Pace yourself gentlemen, be attentive and let her show you where to place your next step. After all she is the only one with a map to her heart pointing out all the dangerous areas to avoid. And it is a twisty path, you need the map.