The "challenge" (let's not call it a problem) is that while some women want to stay at home and raise kids, others want to have a career and no kids... each thinks the their decision is best... for everybody... and if you chose the other, you're somehow betraying "the cause." If we all could just respect each others choices without judgement, I believe we'd have a better society. Next time post in "introduceyourself" you'll get more attention. (It's a Xanga redux... LOL).