Many a times in our life we are provided with an opportunity and what we do is we settle. We settle for the first thing we get in life, the first job and the first person we meet.
Did it ever happen to you. You were looking for a job and found it and then later realized during the interview or even after starting to work at the job that it was not good enough or you met a person and you thought there was something not clicking but either people near you or your friends told you to do avoid the red flags because it was not the obvious thing to do.
I have been in both the situations and honestly all I have had to go through was extreme pain, dissatisfaction and trauma.
The reason I made the wrong decisions was that I had limiting beliefs and I never thought I was good enough. I think we all have been through this at certain stages of our lives where we think that we are not going to get anything better and this is our final chance.
The thing I realized is that no one should be afraid to say no. Say no things that you don't believe in and say no to accepting things how they are.
The problem with our society is that if we do something that is against popular belief we get judged for it and people will make sure to make sure that their opinion is heard.
If we don't like our jobs people will force us to stay in it because it "puts the food on the table." I agree with that but so why not try to find some time for what you like to do. People can make excuses all they want but if someone is making excuses it means that they don't want it enough.
If we feel that we like something and are talented enough success will follow. All it takes is a leap of faith and hard work. Don't settle strive for the best now and always.