Thank you.... Since having a baby I have also learnt to realise that children really have serious social preferences. I cringe when I see a little girl holding onto her daddy's legs while an uncle is trying to pick her up and hug her. And this little girl just wants none of it!!! But the dad isn't doing anything because it's "normal" for a child to be forced to greet people in whatever way they want. And then at the same time I know how hard it is to go against that norm.