פוסט לזוגות נשואים: ללמוד ביחד באוניבריסטה או שאחד עובד אחד לומד?? Post to married couples: study together at the university or do one employee study?

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Many couples who marry at an early age begin their studies during the marriage years, one studying architecture and the other studying economics, one engineer and one teacher.

The story begins when I and my wife, two young peoples wanted to get married, everyone came from another house, everyone wanted to learn something else
We both began to study difficult subjects that required a lot of effort.

We saw around us how people were "rotting" even though I would say that rotting is actually better then married couples who study at the university and earn 4,000 ILS(1000$) together PER MONTH.

We saw that around us many couples study together and make a living, even look great, so we decided we would do it too!
If they are capable of what we do not?

We started the first month, the first month of study (mathematics, engineering, etc.) is relatively easy, the load starts in the second month, I quickly found myself in an impossible load that prevents me from holding both work and studies, something is going to get screwed and strong! And apparently this is my bank account, I think that within a month we were in a negative balance sheet of NIS 10,000 ($ 2,600), lucky we still had the wedding gifts that left us with our heads above the water.

The Solution - Duties!
Yes, like kitchen duty, everyone does a different job at a different time.
Today she studies tomorrow I study, today I work tomorrow she works.

Why should all our debts fall on our parents? Why should they have to cover a debt of NIS 200,000? Why should we be scalded while we can save?

Why did we have to be enslaved to the bank?
I tell you! This is the plan of the banks to enslave you in a cunning way.

"You need a profession, you have to learn"

The rumors say that when you work, you do not have time to make money. What brings to this work is actually the studies. I think that the experience of life that I accumulated while I was not studying is worth a lot, maybe almost like the studies themselves. But still underestimate other things for the sake of school.
It's not that I made a lot of money while I was not studying. It may be that if I were a software engineer I would have made a very good profit, but it would have come at the expense of someone, at the expense of the older generation who had saved all his life to reach a day of peace.
I want to eat in the restaurant once a week twice, I want to buy my wife the clothes she loves, I want to go on vacation and not enter the depths of the minus.
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