Damn. I can't say I disagree with most of it. I see what you're pointing at. I would also love to have your tool open for all. I would even fund it IF I was rich like that. It definitely deserves to be.

The emotional spine of your post is basically this,

“If you don’t want me in your space, then act like I’m not in your space. Fully.”

And it's completely understandable.

Yet when abuse does happen, your tool can reveal hidden motives and then we as a community can do something about it. Maybe. It's still very useful though.