yes, so much this

I wish i were better at midwifing other white folks thru these contractions! but it's hard to soothe existental threat, which unfortunately seems to be bound up in whiteness for so many

it's very human work... and midwiving the contractions is a purrrfect analogy. i'm feeling called to continue trying to create spaces for white folx to process it.... getting the message in recent years that it certainly is white folx job to teach other white folx (not black or brown ppl's job)... so many just prefer ignore-ance.... and obv with trump in the white house that is a huge symbol right there with where many people are at. sometimes it seems unscalable --- that divide.......... but yeah... we need to lean in <3