I have tried working on this marriage and as much as I dont want it to end I am tired of going in am endless circle. He has changed a lot and somethings I will never understand but we now believe in different things and have different things we like to do. He doesnt like the fun things I want to do and he has changed traditions we have carried out for the last couple of years. I try to understand but why should I be the only one to compromise? I dont feel like he tries to spend time with me and I dont feel like my feelings ever matter. He is disconnected and because of that my feelings are never understood. I want our family but if I am always doing things like holidays and special things with them alone then I just feel like he is not part of this family.