Greetings, Steemians!
The human society is governed by a set of rules that give responsibilities to its members. Our approach to these responsibilities will eventually form our identity.
One of the most eminent aspirations for anyone in life is to grow closer to the image of their ideal selves. That longing for idealism is not merely characteristic, since we also form an image of the ideal society in our mind as we experience intellectual growth in the early years of our adolescence.
This growth contributes to our understanding of our responsibilities towards family, community, society, and country.
The obligations of human society are not always in concurrence to our own ideals. In this case, a person has two choices; whether to find a reasonable way to take care of such inconsistencies, or revolt in an attempt to change the fundamental rules of society, and it has often been proved that the latter will fail to give you any results.
The crisis of identity occurs when the obligations of society compels you to walk down a path that contradicts the ideal image of life in your mind. The very first outcome of such crisis is depression and loss of tranquility.
In our impatience for the realization of our dreams, we make way for all sorts of fears and doubts to enter our mind and taint our resolution of what we should actually do with our unavoidable obligations in order to become successful.
That very ideal image that you grow in your mind turns to the opponent that will haunt your every moment, notwithstanding the fact that our sense of idealism should actually be a tool for our ambition and success.
Imagine that you have always dreamt of becoming a writer when you grew up, but society comes in with its shackles of responsibilities and pulls you towards a different path. All you really want to do is write, but your obligations compel you to remain in a safer path for the time being.
What can we do in a situation like this?
This identity crisis is something we all go through at some point in our lifetime. We may feel lost or worse, useless. We may begin to see no point in the continuation of our life, for there is no more a trace of what gave us hope and purpose in the beginning.
I remember a very successful friend of mine who was an entrepreneur tell me something very interesting about the crisis of our identity. He was always intrigued by fascinating ideas and never cared much for an ordinary and reliable job.
‘I once was an accountant working in an office, you know,’ He said to me. ‘But I never saw myself as one.’
Sometimes the place we are is the not the place we want to be, but we have to bear the challenge nonetheless. You may be wearing a particular robe or uniform, but that does not determine who you are.
Have hope, for you will eventually find your way around the obligations of society and realize your dreams!
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
Thanks All of You!!!!