One evening I was hanging out with my FWB (I'll call him Sean), several of his friends, and my husband Ben. One of Sean's newer acquaintances knew that Sean and I were casual sex partners but not that

You'd think the answer to this question would be obvious. After all, let's face it -- sex is a biological imperative. And if it didn't feel so good, we humans probably wouldn't have it nearly as often

I've put a lot of thought into how I should recount my first true extramarital sexual experience. In the end, I've decided to speak frankly -- and in detail -- about how it happened. My intent is not to

I always thought I was a one-marshmallow kid. Back in the 1970s, a scientist ran an experiment with 4-year-olds. He put them in a room with one marshmallow on a plate, then left them alone with it for

Usually, when people hear you're in an open relationship, they ask one of two questions. If they're polite, the question is "How did y'all decide to do this?" If they're not polite they ask,

Sex is a wonderfully educational experience. Like any other human interaction, you need certain skills and/or mindsets to be successful. On the other hand, its physical and emotional intimacy takes

Usually my posts are a little more polished than this, but in a way those posts are somewhat misleading because sex and relationships are NOT neat, they are NOT organized into categories and subcategories,

Sometimes, the most fulfilling marital sex is the sex you don't have with your spouse. This is a typical conversation between me and my husband. (The names are fictitious.) : Me: Hey Ben, do you have any

I had a couple of topics in mind for today, but then I came across a New York Times article about Americans and their apprehension at being alone with members of the opposite sex: and I decided my original

DISCLAIMER 1: This is not a man-bashing posting. I love men and having sex with them. DISCLAIMER 2: I am writing as a heterosexual female.  I cannot speak to other people's experiences, only my own.

I was going to get up this morning and write about what I've learned since starting an open marriage, like I've got it all figured out. Guess what?  I don't.  And that's okay. I'm married and