(By Scrolling down you can find the English translation, thank you)

Ma numesc Alina si scriu aceste randuri cu speranta si credinta in Dumnezeu si ca El va gasi o cale de a va inspira si pe voi si de a reusi sa rezolvam ce nu am reusit singuri in ultimii ani.

In urma cu aproximativ trei saptamani mama a suferit un stop respirator in urma caruia a ramas fara respiratie timp de cateva minute pana au ajuns ajutoarele (SMURD-ul) care i-au restabilit respiratia conectand-o la oxigen si facandu-i resuscitare apoi au sosit paramedicii care au incercat timp de 40 de minute sa o stabileasca ca apoi a ajuns la spital unde doua zile a stat in urgente si in sectia de critici, unde a fost conectata la aparate si intubata, apoi o saptamana si jumatate a stat la Recuperare apoi doua saptamani la salon unde a primit in continuare tratament antibiotic si investigatii unde dupa 12 zile medicii au reusit sa afle ca exista un cheag pe vena pulmonara si valva stanga a inimii nu functioneaza bine adica se opreste si functioneaza cand vrea.

In tot acest timp am fost si sunt mereu langa ea, am stat si am asteptat pe la usi si m-am rugat incontinuu. Financiar, si eu cat si tata am epuizat toate resursele.

Mama se numeste Claudia si are 62 de ani si pe langa aceste probleme care le are acum in urma cu patru ani a avut al doilea atac cerebral si sufera de reumatism, hernie, gonartroza, probleme masive dentare si coxartroza severa(soldul stang este aproape inexistent si necesita operatie).

Pentru ea fac apel la voi toti, fiindca imi doresc sa ramana langa mine si langa tata si cei doi nepoti ai ei inca multi ani de acum inainte dar in felul in care este acum stiu ca, cu greu este posibil si sper cu ajutorul vostru sa pot sa o ajut sa fie mai bine si sa fie macar ceva mai fericita si sa poata trece mai usor peste probleme si sa aiba cei multi ani inainte mai buni decat cei anteriori.

Tata este si el pensionar, are 59 de ani si de 40 de ani este bolnav de artrita reumatoida si psoriazis de primul grad, adica secunda de secunda simte dureri in tot corpul datorita articulatiilor sudate si macinate si abia se poate deplasa, are pielea mai sensibila ca o foaie de ceapa si mai mereu iritata si care ustura iar mama a fost mereu principalul lui sprijin si ingrijitor de 35 de ani.

Mama de 11 ani s-a ingrijit ca o mama autentica si de baiatul meu de 11 ani pe nume Dragos, ca eu sa pot munci si sa-mi pot alege si face un drum in viata.

In urma cu trei ani m-am casatorit cu sotul meu cu care avem si o fetita pe nume Sofia de 3 ani si jumatate.

Timp de doi ani am locuit la mine dar problemele ne-au depasit si ajunsesem la certuri crunte si inevitabil la separarea de anul trecut, in luna iulie de cand locuieste la parintii lui cu fetita fiindca la el exista conditii mai bune de locuit si cu greu o pot si o putem vedea. De circa trei ani am trecut printr-o depresie severa cu care am ales sa ma confrunt singura si sa o depasesc singura fara ajutorul medicamentelor si din pacate in Romania nu dispunem de suport psiho familial la indemana oricui si lipsit de pretentii financiare.

In prezent sotul meu a gasit si pe altcineva si ma rog incontinuu ca toate lucrurile sa fie mai bune si sa putem reface familia noastra cu ajutorul bunului Dumnezeu si cu ajutorul oamenilor buni prin care Dumnezeu lucreaza.

Casa in care locuim este la rosu aproape, este o casa pe care tatal meu dupa 15 ani de procese si bani cheltuiti ( aprox 29000$) a redobandit-o de la strabunicul lui care a fost luata pe nedrept de comunisti in anii 1950 cu aproximatie.

In 2001 au primit aprobare de locuire fiindca eram si dati afara din casa in care stateam fiindca fusese nationalizata si au primit aprobarea pe motiv de renovare. Au investit circa 20.000 $ si aveau incredere in muncitorii care cumparau materialele si care munceau dar din pacate fusesera trasi in piept cu preturile si materialele folosite erau de proasta calitate si astfel ca pana in anul 2008 totul se naruise..

Astfel ca, casa acum se afla la rosu aproape si voi posta si poze pentru a vedea despre ce este vorba.

Casa are si o parte din spate care acum cativa ani un arhitect spunea ca trebuie demolata si reconstruita cu un etaj unde ai mei se gandeau sa faca pentru noi toti iar partea din fata a casei sa o poata inchiria ca sa vina un venit in plus.

Costurile pentru un asemenea demers se ridica undeva la 50000-60000 de euro si costurile renovarii partii din fata undeva la 10000-15000 euro implicand si mana de lucru.

In anul 2014 am lucrat timp de cateva luni incercand sa facem un credit ipotecar pentru acest lucru, avand o carte de munca mai mare platita din buzunarul propriu dar din pacate banca a refuzat sa se implice spunand ca, casa e prea veche.

In casa se afla mult mucegai care trebuie eliminat, care si mie cat si baiatului dar si alor mei ne-au cauzat multe probleme de sanatate..

Anul trecut in luna iulie, Dragos a fost internat in spital cu pneumonie severa si timp de un an a urmat tratament cu sprayuri si aerosoli.

Sofia care a locuit aici cat a fost micuta si m-am ingrijit de ea are si ea inca probleme cu pielea fiind iritata mai mereu si doctorii au descoperit ca ar avea un virus dar analizele care trebuie sa le faca in mediu privat, costa prea mult acum si urmeaza sa le facem cat se poate de curand si de curand urmeaza un tratament timp de o luna fiindca face incontinuu infectii in gat si doctorii ne-au spus ca trebuie sa se opereze de polipi sperand sa nu trebuiasca operatia de eliminare a amigdalelor.

Am nevoie de ajutorul vostru, atat cat poate fiecare ca sa putem demara si restaura un mediu si o casa decenta pentru parintii si copii mei si sa ii pot ajuta sa rezolve cat se poate de mult din problemele lor de sanatate si sa fie si sa se bucure de nepotii lor si restul familiei pentru cat mai multi ani.

Va multumesc pentru ca ati ales sa va implicati si va voi fi vesnic recunoscatoare!

English translation:

My name is Alina and I write these lines with hope and faith in God, and that He will find a way to inspire you and to solve what we have not succeeded in the past few years.

About three weeks ago, my mother suffered a respiratory arrest that stopped her breathing for a few minutes until help arrived (the SMURD) who restored her breath by connecting her to oxygen and doing resuscitation maneovres,, then the paramedics arrived who tried for 40 long minutes to stabilize her then took her to hospital where she stood for a day in first emergency room and after in the critics room where she was connected to the devices and intubated and then for a week and a half she was put in the Recovery section and for two weeks at the normal salon and all this time she was receiving antibiotic treatment and investigations ( and money had to be given and there were many bad assistants and many who barely knew what they were doing and tortured her) and doctors after 12 days were able to find out that there is a clot in the pulmonary main ein and that the left heart valve does not work well as it stops and works when it wants.

During all this time I have been and am always beside her, I stayed and waited at the door and prayed continually. Financially, both my father and I have exhausted all the resources.

My mother`s name is Claudia and she is 62 years old and in addition to these problems she has now, four years ago she had second stroke and suffers from rheumatism, hernia, severe knee osteoarthritis , massive dental problems and severe osteoarthritis (left hip is almost nonexistent and requires surgery).

For her I appeal to you all, because I want her to stay with me and beside my father and her two grandchildren for many years to come but the way it is now, I know that it is hardly possible and I hope with your help, I can help her be better and be somewhat happy and can move more easily over the problems and have many more years, better than the previous ones.

Dad is also retired, is 59 years old and for 40 years suffers from rheumatoid arthritis and psoriasis first degree, meaning that every second he feels pain throughout the body due to welded and almost gone joints and can barely move, skin is more sensitive than a cover of onion and always irritated and stinging and my mother has always been his main support and carer for 35 years.

My mother also has cared as an authentic mother for my 11 year old son named Dragos, so that I can work and make a living.

Three years ago I married my husband, and we have a little girl named Sofia who`s three and a half years old.

For two years we lived at my place but problems have overtaken us and came to cruel quarrels and to the inevitable separation from last year in July when he started living at his parents with our baby girl because at his place he has better conditions of living and hardly I and we can see her. For about three years I have been through a severe depression which I have chosen to confront myself and to overcome it alone without the help of drugs and unfortunately in Romania we do not have nearby psychological family support without financial claims.

Now my husband has found someone else and I pray constantly that all things will be better and we can restore our family with God's help and with the help of good people through whom God works.

The house where we live is a shell house, is a house that my father after 15 years of lawsuits and money spending (about $ 29,000, since I was 7 years old) regained it from state in 2012, which is from his grandfather's part who was extorted by the communists in aprox. 1950 .

In 2001 we received approval for living in the house, because we were kicked out of the house we were staying because it was nationalized ( given back to the rightful owner) and we received legal approval of living in it based on renovation reasons. Y parents invested about $ 20,000 and trusted the workers who bought the materials and who did the work but unfortunately had been cheated with the prices and the materials used were of poor quality and so until 2008 everything was ruined.

So, the house is now a shell house and I'll also post pictures to see what it is all about.

The house also has a back part about which, a couple of years ago an architect said that it should be demolished and rebuilt with a floor too and my parents thought about doing it for all of us and the front of the house could rent it for an extra income.

Costs for such action would be around 50000-60000 euros and costs of the renovation of the front part of the house, somewhere at 10000-15000 euro and involving the workforce costs.

In 2014 I worked for a few months trying to make a mortgage for this, with a higher paid workbook from my own pocket, but unfortunately the bank refused to get involved by saying that the house is too old.

There is a lot of mold in the house that needs to be eliminated, which to both my parents and my boy has caused many health problems.

Last July, Dragos was hospitalized with severe pneumonia and for one year he was treated with sprays and aerosols.

Sofia who lived here while she was baby until 2 and half years old and I cared for her, has problems with her skin being irritated most of the time and doctors have found that she has a virus but the analyzes that she has to do in the private environment cost too much now and we're going to do it as soon as possible, and for a month she`s doing treatment because she's constantly getting infections in the throat and the doctors told us they have to operate the polyps and trying to avoid the tonsil removal surgery.

I need your help, as much as everyone can in order to start and restore a decent environment and home for my parents and children and help them solve as much of their health problems as possible so they can enjoy their grandchildren and the rest of the family for many more years.

Thank you for choosing to become involved and I will be eternally grateful!