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Sam Simkins
@ssimkins9
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Husband, father, friend, lawyer, and woodworker—in that order
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December 24, 2017
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ssimkins9
steemitzombies
2018-05-15 15:37
Beauty In Struggle | Steemitzombies
Steemit zombies is a community and set of guidelines for encouraging the non-spammy reposting and curation of undervalued posts. Steemit zombies must use the #steemitzombies tag as a first tag, include
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ssimkins9
story
2018-05-14 19:33
Why You Should Become a Story Collector (and how)
I have always been captivated by the prowess of a gifted story teller. These people are able to lead others through unfolding events in a way that builds tension and engagement. But there is someone who
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ssimkins9
psychology
2018-05-09 14:05
Puke and Ponytails: A Story of Self-Loathing and Triumph
It started at 4 am. My eldest daughter, Lyla, stumbled into our dark room and whimpered “mom, dad, I’m sorry. I tried to get it in the toilet, but I couldn’t make it and I puked all over the bathroom floor.”
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ssimkins9
inspiration
2018-05-02 15:21
What If Your "Calling" Is More Than One Thing?
I have always struggled with knowing what I want to do in life. I never had an answer as a child for the adults' constant questioning about my future plans. After high school, I started an unintentional
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ssimkins9
psychology
2018-05-01 19:52
More Than Cutting | What Is Non-Suicidal Self-Injury?
Are tattoos and piercings self-harm? What about full contact sports? This week I received a great question from @scan0017 about whether an intense work out routine could be self-harming as it does involve
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inspiration
2018-04-29 23:57
Never Be a "Full-Time" Employee | Why You Should Keep Things From Your Boss
Unless you live off the land or are independently wealthy, work is probably a central and important part of each week, or even every day. And there is good reason for that, to a degree. We work to gain
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ssimkins9
psychology
2018-04-27 17:59
You Probably Know A Couple Hundred People Who Have Self-Injured
Non-suicidal self-injury , or NSSI, is such a widely misunderstood behavior. There is a noticeable deficit of research and scholarly writing on the subject. Even practitioners are often unprepared to spot
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ssimkins9
spirituality
2018-04-26 18:29
Men and Women Don't Age Differently, We Just Objectify Them Differently
My bride turns 29 today. I managed to reach 27 years old last month. We are relatively young for the life situation we are straddling right now--five kids, four degrees between the two of us, three chickens,
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spirituality
2018-04-25 01:50
Get Bored and See What Happens
A strange thing can happen when you take your brain out of the stream of constant stimulation. Think about it, when was the last time you went 20 minutes without something begging for your attention? Driving
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ssimkins9
community
2018-04-23 17:05
6 Questions to Leverage Your Community and Learn More About Yourself
How well do you know yourself? It may be obvious, but you have special access to knowledge about yourself that no one else has--google "self-knowledge" or "epistemic privilege" if you
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parenting
2018-04-23 01:28
Reuniting a Mother with Her Kidnapped Children
A couple of months ago I shared that I was taking on a case involving two internationally kidnapped children. I'm a lawyer and I really enjoy being able to take on meaning assignments pro bono (for free)
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ssimkins9
steemit
2018-04-21 15:36
What is the STEEM Response to Contraband: Child Pornography, Identity Theft, Etc?
If you're reading this, you probably know at least a thing or two about blockchain technology. My own knowledge is pretty limited and extends just beyond what can be gleaned from a CNN article on the subject.
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psychology
2018-04-19 14:38
Your Brain Creates Shitty First Drafts of Reality
When we experience hurt or pain, our brains automatically start constructing a narrative around that experience. We can't help it. Our minds are wired to make sense of the physical and emotional stimuli
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psychology
2018-04-18 19:48
How to Know if Your Job is Killing You
They say there is a reason you are paid for work--because if you wanted to do it you'd do it for free. First of all, that a bit of bollocks. You get paid because your work brings value to someone. Still,
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shawnamawna
psychology
2018-04-16 18:01
ssimkins9 reblogged
Games Boys Play, Like Rape
My daughter went to a party recently where she was the only girl. Allowing her to go was a tough call for my husband and me because she is just showing interest in boys and, well, we know things can get
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community
2018-04-17 17:02
You Need Your Tribe to Expand Your Perspective
News Flash: You're human. Your ability to perceive and evaluate a situation is rather limited. That should come as no surprise to anyone without a god-complex. But maybe you're still a little angry about
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parenting
2018-04-13 23:11
Your Screen Time is Ruining Your Kids' Playtime.
If you have been paying any attention, you have probably seen some debate or talk about what healthy screen time looks like for young kids. Screen time being time that a person spends looking at a
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psychology
2018-04-12 14:55
We Are More Similar Than Different
I am in a group that I love very much. Twice a month, twelve people gather together early Saturday morning. We meet in the back room of a 118 year old church on Detroit's east side. We are all there because
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psychology
2018-04-10 16:53
Through The Mud Pit of Grief. It Hurts, Yet You Must Keep Going.
Grief is something different. It's not sadness, anger, or loneliness. It often includes all of those, but there is more. There is something unique about pulling yourself to wade into the grieving process.
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community
2018-04-06 16:17
Running a Meaningful Contest: Winners and Reflections
Last week I posted my half-way-point update on my Steemit goal. I am trying to stick to an aggressive blogging schedule for 100 days. With that post, I also announced a contest that sought to gather advice,
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