En una calle cualquiera, todos los días salía a correr en bicicleta un niño como de doce años; un día cayó al pavimento y se golpeó fuertemente un brazo. Salieron varios vecinos a ver qué había pasado y el porqué de tanto grito.
El papá vociferaba: "Te dije que tuvieras cuidado"; la mamá le recriminaba al esposo "por eso no quería que le compraras esa bicicleta"; la abuela decía: "Si lo hubieran mandado hoy para la escuela, no pasa esto"; un vecino dijo: "Esa marca de bicicletas no es buena"; otra acotó que las calles tenían muchos salientes. "Por culpa del gobierno", se oyó decir a varios. Mientras tanto, una hermana mayor había corrido por la cuadra a ver quién tenía un carro para poder trasladar al niño al centro de salud más cercano, y eso fue lo que hicieron.
Al llegar al sitio, el médico echó la culpa a los padres por no ponerle protectores de rodilla, codos y cascos y así sucesivamente cada quien fue opinando. En medio de la crítica, juzgaban y culpabilizaban y así sucesivamente. Cambie usted la situación y observe el entorno y verá que se repite el esquema: la culpa como la papa caliente que pasa de mano en mano.
Echar la culpa es un deporte nacional; quien tira la primera piedra lo hace con ese fin, lleno como está de remordimientos de conciencia; no le alcanza la propia vida sino para molestar la de otros. Qué daño tan fuerte ocasiona una acusación y qué salida tan rápida y común es la que tienen muchas personas; parece el entretenimiento diario. Yo no fui, fuiste tú. Muchos no se dan cuenta.
Quienes me acompañaron en las lecturas de las publicaciones de la iniciativa 41, Los matices de la culpa, en "Esa vida nuestra" coincidirán conmigo en que hubo participaciones que también le echaron la culpa a otros y se libraron de ella a través de sus palabras. Otros equipararon con la responsabilidad y muchos asumieron la importancia del aprendizaje que se deriva de todo esto.
Qué maldad existe en quien decide culpar al otro, antes de asumir su propia responsabilidad, y qué terrible cuando, en caso de un accidente, la reacción de los implicados es la de culpar incluso a la víctima.
Las palabras pueden ser crueles: "Se lo dije..." Gente que anticipa la desgracia y espera que esta ocurra para lanzar su látigo acusador, cuando pudo dar una mano y evitar que el daño ocurriera. Esto está tan metido en el comportamiento humano, que aun cuando es propia la responsabilidad, la persona al verse afectada busca un tercero a quien culpar.
Me gustó la palabra usada por 
Hive account@nancybriti1, el "pobrecitismo", comportamiento aprendido y mostrado incluso por gente bastante mayor, de sentirse víctima y manipular con ello. "A mí nunca me llaman", "como soy así me dejan por fuera", "ya me van a culpar a mí". "pobrecito yo".
No, nadie debería culpar a nadie en la vida ordinaria y cotidiana sin ver su propio comportamiento. Existen responsabilidades compartidas donde es importante aprender. Cada suceso es una oportunidad de hacerlo.
Las culpas no ayudan a vivir, a avanzar, a crecer, sean heredadas, asumidas o impuestas; este era un ejercicio también de autoobservación. Nadie es perfecto ni quiere hacer daño deliberadamente, en la mayoría de los casos, del resto se encarga la justicia.
Esta iniciativa llegó a su fin; no obstante, es un buen tema para crear contenido; por si alguien quiere aportar su punto de vista, es bienvenido. Las hago de quince días para tener tiempo de leerlos a todos, no siempre me alcanzan los días, pero sé que todos reciben buena interacción de parte de todos, lo siento mucho sí me quedó alguien sin leer, será para la próxima. Estoy contenta. Gracias a todos por esta masiva participación. Seleccioné para los puntos Ecency a:
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English Version
On an ordinary street, a boy of about twelve years old went out every day to ride his bicycle; one day he fell on the pavement and hit his arm hard. Several neighbors came out to see what had happened and why there was so much shouting.
The father yelled: "I told you to be careful!"; the mother scolded her husband, "That's why I didn't want you to buy him that bicycle!"; the grandmother said: "If they had sent him to school today, this wouldn't have happened!"; a neighbor said: "That brand of bicycle isn't good!"; another remarked that the streets had many bumps. "It's the government's fault," several people were heard saying. Meanwhile, an older sister had run around the block to see who had a car to take the child to the nearest health center, and that's what they did.
Upon arriving, the doctor blamed the parents for not putting knee and elbow pads and a helmet on him, and so on, with everyone offering their opinion. Amidst the criticism, they judged and blamed, and so on. Change the situation and observe the surroundings, and you'll see the pattern repeat itself: blame passed around like a hot potato.
Blaming others is a national pastime; whoever throws the first stone does so with that intention, filled as they are with pangs of conscience; their own life isn't enough to bother others. What great damage an accusation causes, and what a quick and common way out many people have; it seems to be daily entertainment. It wasn't me, it was you. Many don't realize it.
Those who joined me in reading the publications of Initiative 41, The Nuances of Guilt, in "That Life of Ours," will agree with me that some participants also blamed others and absolved themselves of responsibility through their words. Others equated it with taking responsibility, and many acknowledged the importance of the lessons learned from all of this.
What malice lies in those who choose to blame others before assuming their own responsibility, and how terrible when, in the case of an accident, the reaction of those involved is to blame even the victim.
Words can be cruel: "I told them so..." People who anticipate misfortune and wait for it to happen so they can unleash their accusatory whip, when they could have lent a hand and prevented the harm. This is so ingrained in human behavior that even when the responsibility is one's own, when a person is affected, they look for someone else to blame.
I liked the word used by Hive account@nancybriti1, "pity-ism," a learned behavior, even displayed by older people, of feeling like a victim and using it to manipulate others. "They never call me," "because I'm like this, they leave me out," "they're going to blame me now," "poor me."
No, no one should blame anyone else in ordinary, everyday life without examining their own behavior. There are shared responsibilities where it's important to learn. Every event is an opportunity to do so.
Blame doesn't help us live, move forward, or grow, whether it's inherited, assumed, or imposed; this was also an exercise in self-observation. No one is perfect or wants to deliberately cause harm; in most cases, the justice system takes care of the rest.
This initiative has come to an end; however, it's a good topic for creating content; if anyone wants to contribute their point of view, they are welcome. I do them every two weeks so I have time to read them all. I don't always have enough days, but I know everyone gets good interaction from everyone else. I'm so sorry if I missed someone; I'll get to them next time. I'm happy. Thank you all for this massive participation. I selected the following for the Ecency points:
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