Chocolate, teddy bears, roses all set. Wait, let's not forget fine wine and music. What about dinner or a bubble bath? Candle light dinner or lunch? Or should I just give her that gift she has been hoping for? Let's just pop the question already, it's about time 😉.

But....

What if i can't do any of these right now? I cannot afford that fancy restaurant or gift. I do not even know what she really wants. Hmm... I really don't want to do this, but I don't want to let her down. If you are this guy, I have a solution for you!

Personally, I feel Valentine's day is overrated (that is a story for another day). But if you are the one who loves it or your significant other can't wait for that day and you are on a budget or you really don't have the cash or maybe you don't really care about it but 'anything for bae'. I have some helpful tips that could help you 😉.

Let's get one thing straight first, it isn't just about the gifts. Lots of guys have this notion that once you get the gift, she's happy. No brother, we can tell when your heart isn't with it . It's really the little things that matter the most. Don't get a gift if you are going to zoom out and be with the 'boys' after you give it. Okay, so down to business...

Make Her favorite food : If bae is like me who loves food, this is for you. You don't have to spend so much on this and break your head. Trust me, it would mean a lot to her. Package it well too and add a little note. The way to some ladies heart is her stomach too, you know? 😉
Compile a list of her favorite songs : You can make a list of her favorite songs and play it to her while you guys dance or listen to it. Even if are a horrible dancer, you'll make her day because you made the effort. There's nothing as woman loves more than making effort.
Cook Together : You don't have to do a feast, but there's nothing like a couple who cooks together. A simple meal would be worth it and it brings you closer to her too.
Give her a massage or a foot rub : You don't have to pay for her to go to the spa. You can be her special masseur on that day. Or give her a foot rub while you tell her how much you love her and adore her.
Take her for a walk : And a very romantic one. Hold hands with her all the time and talk about the time you first met her. You could also sing to her in front of everyone if she's not the shy type.
Write her a love letter : I remember when love letters used to be the thing. Take her back in time. Write her something beautiful, all the words you can't say to her face. We get so caught up with social media that we forget these things.
Make her a scrapbook : Believe me, it's fun. Gather all the fun and not so fun memories that you have. It's going to be awesome because she can look back at it everytime.
Re create the first time you met : This is cute. Really introduce yourself to her. Make her remember why she was interested in you in the beginning. This brings back beautiful memories.
Run errands : I know this might sound weird or crazy but it's nice. Don't let her stress about anything. Go for groceries, clean the house, do laundry, the dishes. It's super thoughtful.
Watch a movie at home : You can spend the evening with her, watching her favorite movies. It doesn't cost a thing.

So, that's all I have right now, but I'll let you know if any other idea pops up. Enjoy Valentine's Day and remember it's not all about the gifts. 💕